On reading "The Snow Leopard and some thoughts on fatherhood
I am reading "The Snow Leopard" by Peter Matthiessen, a highly acclaimed, award-winning travel book and I'm having a very hard time with it because the author's wife died the year before this trip and Matthiessen left behind his 8-year-old motherless boy to go on this adventure. From early in the book: "Later I dreamed about my beautiful eight-year-old boy, whose mother died of cancer just last year. In the dream, I paid a visit to a dark cagelike shelter, where he was being kept with other children...." Sounds like a tormented nightmare of a man who knew what he did was terrible, if you ask me. When I was a girl, my mother died of cancer and I cannot imagine what it would be like if my father had left myself and my sisters for nearly a year right after that. It would have been very bad for all three of us. But this is what men can do, abandon their motherless children for the sake of their own personal quest and ambition. In the introduction to the book, Pi...